Your spouse on earth is a symbol of your relationship with Me. Give him/her Love, honor, and respect as a symbol of your Love, honor, and respect for Me. If you dishonor him/her then you have dishonored you and Me.
Ephesians 5:1-2 Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children 2 and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
Ephesians 32-33 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.