To remember the past wrongs is oppressive. No longer speak or think of them. You are holy ground. Be holy.
1 Corinthians 6:7 Why do you not rather accept wrong?
1 Corinthians 13:5 Love thinks no evil
Matthew 6:12 Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us
Ephesians 5:1-2 Therefore be imitators of God as dear children. And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma.