Colossians 1:24 I now rejoice in my sufferings for you and fill up in my flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ for the sake of His body which is the church

To die for Me does not look “heroic” to the outside world. True death occurs within the spirit of My beloved. True death involves the self-loving nature. Allowing your pride to suffer by not defending yourself to “win” an argument is death of self. Giving up your “rights” and allowing unfairness toward you is dying for Me. Remaining in a state of service to the difficult ones with Love and humility is dying for Me. Sacrificing your future plans to take care of another without earth rewards is dying for Me. Colossians 1:24 I now rejoice in my sufferings for you, and fill up in my flesh what is lacking in the afflictions of Christ, for the sake of His body, which is the church